Have you ever sat down at your painting desk, miniature figure in hand, and felt a wave of intimidation wash over you? You’re not alone. Many of us in the miniature painting community grapple with the drive for perfection, a drive that can sometimes hinder our creativity more than it helps.
In this article, I want to talk about expanding our ‘Window of Tolerance’—a concept borrowed from psychology that I believe can be a game-changer for painters who find themselves paralyzed by the pursuit of perfection.

Expanding the ‘Window of Tolerance’ to Manage Perfectionism
Imagine this: You’re about to start painting a model, but the thought of not achieving the perfect shade or making a mistake with a brush stroke makes you hesitate. It’s a feeling many of us know all too well. But what if I told you that some of the most memorable moments in painting come from those very mistakes we dread?
Here are three practical ways I’ve coped with the haunting feeling that I’m not good enough to do the job.
- Embrace Imperfection (Challenge Your Perfectionist Attitude)
- Seek Constructive Feedback (Learn From Others)
- Cultivate a Growth Mindset (Failure is An Opportunity)
1. Embrace Imperfection
Let’s start by flipping the script on perfectionism. Instead of seeing imperfection as a failure, we can view it as a stepping stone to creativity.
Remember, even the most renowned artists didn’t create their masterpieces on the first try. It took countless “happy accidents” and learning moments to get where they are (source). So, why not embrace the mess? After all, each mistake is a lesson in disguise, guiding us toward becoming better painters.
2. Seeking Constructive Feedback
It’s easy to become our worst critic, but constructive feedback from fellow painters can be invaluable. Sharing your work with others can open your eyes to new perspectives and techniques you might not have considered. It’s not about criticism; it’s about growth (source).
So, the next time you’re hesitant to show your work, remember that feedback is a gift, not a judgment.
3. Cultivate a Growth Mindset
The concept of a growth mindset, popularized by psychologist Carol Dweck, revolves around the belief that our abilities and intelligence can be developed with time, effort, and persistence. For miniature painters, this means viewing each painting project as a chance to grow and improve, rather than a test of innate talent or skill.

Incorporating this into your practice involves changing how you talk to yourself about your art. Instead of saying, “I’m not good at painting this type of miniature,” try framing it as, “I haven’t mastered this yet, but I can improve with practice and patience.” This shift in perspective encourages resilience in the face of challenges and mistakes, making it easier to bounce back from setbacks.
Practical Steps to Cultivate a Growth Mindset
| Step | Description |
|---|---|
| Reflect on Your Progress | Regularly take time to reflect on your paintings and note how you’ve improved over time. This can help you see the value in the process of learning and growth. |
| Set Learning Goals | Instead of setting goals solely based on outcomes (e.g., “I want to paint a miniature perfectly”), set learning-oriented goals (e.g., “I want to learn how to blend colors more smoothly”). |
| Embrace Challenges | View challenging projects as opportunities to stretch your abilities and learn something new. Approaching difficulties with curiosity rather than fear can transform your painting experience. |
By cultivating a growth mindset, you’re not only expanding your ‘Window of Tolerance’ for dealing with perfectionism but also laying the foundation for continuous improvement and satisfaction in your art. Remember, progress in miniature painting, as in any art form, is a journey with no final destination. Each piece you create is a step forward in that journey, offering unique lessons and opportunities for growth.
Techniques to Overcome the Intimidation of Starting New Projects
Starting a new project can feel like standing at the edge of a cliff, but it doesn’t have to be a leap into the unknown. Here are a couple of techniques to ease that intimidation:
Reframing Your Approach
Consider each new project as an exploration, not a test of your worth as a painter (source). It’s an opportunity to experiment with colors, techniques, and styles. If something doesn’t turn out as expected, it’s not a failure; it’s a discovery of what works and what doesn’t. This mindset can transform intimidation into excitement, turning each new project into an adventure.
Aiming for “Good Enough”
Perfection is an illusion. Aiming for ‘good enough’ allows us to move forward, making progress with each brush stroke. The 80/20 rule can be a helpful guideline here—focus on getting 80% there, and allow the remaining 20% to be a space for learning and improvisation (related article). This approach not only alleviates the pressure of perfectionism but also encourages a more joyful and sustainable painting practice.
Exploring New Perspectives Through Collaboration: Another powerful technique to overcome perfectionism is to engage in collaborative projects. Working with fellow painters or artists from different disciplines can open your eyes to new perspectives and approaches to art. Collaboration encourages you to step outside your comfort zone, embrace different styles, and accept that there are many ways to achieve a creative vision.
Collaboration also offers a unique opportunity to learn from others’ experiences and mistakes, fostering an environment where perfectionism is replaced by shared learning and growth. When you see firsthand that every artist has their own process, complete with ups and downs, it becomes easier to accept your own imperfections and view them as part of the creative journey.
By the way, if you’re looking for a collaboration of any creative endeavor, I’d be interested to hear your thoughts. Write to us!
Conclusion
Overcoming the trepidation and intimidation associated with miniature painting begins with expanding our ‘Window of Tolerance’ towards imperfection. By embracing imperfections, seeking feedback, and adopting a more forgiving approach to our art, we open the door to a world of creativity that is not hindered by the fear of making mistakes. Remember, the journey of painting miniatures is not about achieving perfection on the first try; it’s about the growth, discoveries, and joy we find along the way.
As you go back to your painting desk, I encourage you to embrace the beauty of imperfection. Let your creativity flow, unburdened by the pursuit of perfection, and see where this new mindset takes you. Happy painting!
References:
- “Overcoming Perfectionism: Tips for Artistic Creativity.” blog.daisie.com. Accessed 02-17-24.
- “Embracing Imperfection in Art.” creativitychronicles.com. Accessed 02-10-24.
- “Three Practical Tips to Overcome Perfectionism.” Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com. Accessed 02-17-24.
- Dweck, Carol S. “Mindset: The New Psychology of Success.” Ballantine Books, 2006.
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